Debbie Whitman

About Me Hello, I’m Debbie — also known as Debbie Donut. I’m a content creator, a natural nurturer, and someone who believes deeply in kindness, even when life tests it. I’ve built my online presence around positivity, humour, and warmth, but like most people, there’s more to me than just smiles and laughter. I love all things a little bit witchy and wonderful — growing my own herbs, exploring alternative remedies, and finding calm in nature. Animals are a huge part of my life. I share my home with Hamilton, my beautiful rescue dog, Oreo — my son’s three-legged cat — and a fascinating aquarium that brings me peace. I also enjoy creating decoupage with oyster shells and selling them to raise money for the dog charity I rescued Hamilton from. This blog was created as a place to slow down and reflect. A space where I can share the quieter thoughts behind the laughter — especially around love, relationships, and the question of why the people we love most can sometimes hurt us the deepest. I’m not here to blame or dwell in sadness. I’m here to understand, to heal, and to learn how to keep a soft heart in a hard world. To explore how we can love deeply while also protecting ourselves. To grow, even when things are confusing or painful. If you’re someone who loves hard, feels deeply, and is learning how to put yourself first without losing your kindness — you’re very welcome here. You can also find me on TikTok as @debdonut1, where I share everyday positivity, humour, and real-life moments — because life is all of it, not just one side. Thank you for being here.